Mistress Lotus Love playing with Newbies
Never had a taste of the candy, and now you’ve been thrown into a delicious candy store! Never submitted? Dominated? Bottomed? It’s okay. 
No labels here, just a curiosity about what all this is. Education, awareness and exchanging information were my intentions when I started this post and a bit of flirty fun thrown in too. I have so many brand new clients, they have never done this or been to a professional Dom before, but they are very curious and want to explore their another side of sensuality, their fantasies and fetishes.
For this reason, I posted this discussion for first timers to share their feelings before and after their visiting at Lotus’ studio. I’ m very experienced and love sessioning with newbies ! Thank you for joining us!
-Mistress Lotus
December 31st, 2008 at 12:44 am
I had a session a couple of days ago with mistress Lita , during the session, i was blindfolded, sensually teased, humiliated, also was tied up and spanked on a stock, i was made to worship her feet, and ultimately used as a reward. It was my very first time and it was a strangely satisfying and thrilling experience. Since I have never done this before I have nothing to compare with Lotus’ studio, but it was an excellent experience for me, I will be back.
December 31st, 2008 at 12:52 am
This’s my first time to visit Mistress Lotus , her studio is so easy to find out, Mistress Lotus is very good at making you feel welcome and comfortable. She is very skillful with flogging and spanking, Intuitive with limits. I usually like to play with blindfold, but this time i did not want to miss seeing her. Photos are accurate! she is beautiful and telented !
December 31st, 2008 at 2:01 pm
Before I had a session with Mistress Lotus, I had seen a few other Mistresses. My experience with Mistress Lotus was by far the best experience I had ever had. I have now seen Mistress Lotus approximately 10 times and every experience has been new and fulfilling. Most of my sessions are now with Mistress Lotus and Mistress Lita. They know exactly what buttons to push to give me the right limits in pain and the most pleasurable moments. I can’t wait for my next opportunity to see them and wonder what new experience they will provide me. They are the best.
January 5th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
Tom and SR, I’m very successful with my business, the main reason is I treat customers with courtesy, smile and the best service, clients are respected before and after their session. I’m very creative with different types of sessions and fetishes, from erotic sensual teasing to extreme corporal punishment, the session is always a great mix of pleasure and pain for delivering their fantasies or catering the various tastes, clients always can get exactly what they expect in a session and much more too… Normally a session for a beginner should be mild, light and pleasant, definitely all your wishes and fantasies would be fulfilled in the session as well. When you come to Lotus’ studio you will greeted with sweet smile and free wine, I have a very easy approaching with new clients, you would be feeling very relax at my studio. That’s reason why I have countless repeat clients come to visit me, a memorable session will make you thinking about me for a long time. If you never try you never know what kind of feeling it would be to be in a Chinese Mistress’ control…
January 8th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
I have been doing research on what I would like for my first session recently, but I really have no clue what to request, it all looks so interesting to me, so as long as I will have a good time during this coming session, you basically could do anything you would enjoy to do , I don’t really care what will come out of your mind; I am willing to try just about anything at least once, so if it is not asking too much could you give me some suggestions.
January 8th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Hello SR, I will try to cover many things in your first session as you requested. For example, sensual teasing/denial, body worship, CBT, clamps, blindfold, gag, ball weights, rope bondage, (swing or rope)suspension, light physical discipline (such as bare hand over knee spanking, flogging, whipping), mild erotic electric play, nipples play and toys training if you wish. So your session should be very interesting, thrilling and pleasant which also is suitable for many other beginners.
January 8th, 2009 at 11:43 pm
Mistress Lotus:
I am strongly considering this for my first session. I think it would be good for my first time. It is something I have been curious for a while… some spanking, light bondage, ass worship.(and i must admit, you do have a nice ass)
I work in downtown MPLS. I am 28 years old, and perhaps i could visit you some days later after work. I will chat with you soon. I just need to get over my nervousness.
January 8th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Hello Tom, all your fantasies will be well satisfied during this coming session, we can do some teasing with bondage, body/ass worship, light rope bondage and discipline session as you expected. Please give me a call to set up an appointment ahead of time, thank you and talk to you soon.
January 18th, 2009 at 11:24 am
after about 2 months of back and forth e-mails with Mistress Lotus, I took the plunge yesterday and had a session with her. This was my first session of any type with a professional Dominatrix and I must say it will not be my last one with Mistress Lotus, it was well worth the 500 miles round trip that was made for this visit. She was very respectful to myself and my wishes right from the begining of the session, through the whole session Mistress Lotus made sure I was getting what I wanted. Her ability to read body language is uncanny, every time when I felt I had reached my pain limit or was getting close , I would feel her soft touch and sweet caress that would allow me to push my limits even higher. I was made to feel at ease from the moment I walked into her studio to the time I left. The only issue I had with the entire session is that I felt 2 hours was just not enough time, it were up so quickly , if it is possible next time I would like to schedule a 3 or 4 hours session , i would like her to do slave training to me and most definitely i want to learn is the Art of Body Worship.
Now the session is over I am wondering why I was so nervous before…
February 20th, 2009 at 3:00 am
I have never had a session before. I would really like to see Mistress Lotus for my first encounter with a Dominatrix. I’m super apprehensive about it but its one of those things I have thought about doing for many years. I guess I was wondering if during first session it could be more casual. not so….naked i guess. I’m kind of thinking if I have to ask a question like that…maybe this isn’t really for me. but why not ask right? maybe I’m not the only one.
May 5th, 2009 at 3:17 am
I am not a novice now but if I ever had the opportunity of visit You I would love to surrender myself as if it were the first time being trained like Your most submissive slave forgetting all I have learnt before in order to submit me at Your will. Then I´ll get punishment without doing anything to deseve it as a reward.
You impress me deeply Mistress Lotus.
June 20th, 2009 at 11:16 pm
my trip to misstress lotus was the best, she is a very skilled, beautiful and sexy dominatrix, i have never done any thing like this before, this is my first time to visit a professional, when i got to her studio she made me feel very comfortable and welcome, she treated me to my deepest fantasy(to be fiminized), she well delivered every thing i hoped it would be, i can not say enough other than i will NEVER go to anybody else and neither should YOU if you looking for perfection, she is truly amazing! i can’t wait to go back.
June 29th, 2009 at 7:12 pm
I have been contemplating to my first visit for a long time. I am very nervous. I am not sure what to ask for, but I want so many things. Is there a “too far” with Mistress Lotus? I really have no idea… I want to explore feminization, some CBT and toy training…. any experiences?