Sadists and Masochists
In BDSM community, there are many players like receiving corporal punishment, heavy torture, 
they enjoy the rush, the endorphin release, at this high sub space , pain is the flowing of rush and pleasure .
Are you a Sadist or a Masochist ?
What kind of pain and torment do you like: sharp, stingy, thuddy, dull, burning, cold, long lasting or short lived?
How do you prefer your mistress to deliver and administer the pain to your body?
Would you like to share your experience to the people who has the similiar interests like yours ?
-Mistress Lotus
December 27th, 2008 at 10:34 pm
As I am both a pain slut and a masochists I truly enjoy a wide range of different types of pain, the pain slut in me can turn most kinds of pain into pleasure. While the masochist in me prefers a heavier thuddy yet slightly stingy deeper hot pain, usually from a heavy flogger with the tips cut to a point works best for me.
My reason for both of the above answers is because that’s mostly the ways that I can achieve multiple orgasms just from a beating and from the energies that my Sadistic Top shares with me!
while i’m writing, i imagine myself in a domination scene , I already get so fricking horny again, I really need to be whipped NOW!
December 27th, 2008 at 11:04 pm
I love many different sensations. For the most part I prefer is the sting from a whip or a cane rather than from a wooden paddle or a thick baton. I also like digging pain. such as deep scratching, clawing, nailing, massive bruises around tendons and from rope marks, pinching pain with long duration, a mix of high impact stingy and burny pain is awesome too. I’m also a fan of playing with temperature, runing ice cubes on my chest and dripping hot wax on my genital area is very erotic too.
However like most of the submissives, if the mistress pushes me properly and far enough, i will be happily to take anything that is handy!
December 27th, 2008 at 11:36 pm
I’m a lifestyle player, i switch both two roles. when I am a sadistic master, I like to give sharp, short, stingy pain to my submissives. I like to administer the pain with whips and canes. the sound and impact make me think of cutting into soft butter, each stroking welt is a slice. i take my time to slice it away by strokes.
When I am a masochist I like thuddy, light stingy, hot pain that subsides on a bell curve. I’m partial to crops and fatty floggers. I like this sort of pain because it feels like energy transference to me, I can convert this type of pain easily into warmth and energy, i can feel the heat flowing through my whole body. imagining when you drop a piece of stone into water, it has the initial smack on the surface, then it sinks slowly into the bottom, normally a prolong midium to heavy flogging will give me this kind of deep tissue swedish massage sensation, i love it and feel so arousal while i’m flogged.
December 29th, 2008 at 10:40 pm
i love medium whipping/spankings with the sensuous soothing touch from my Mistress. Electricity is very fun and would like to try higher settings. Hot wax and ice are great and interchangable!! As stated above during a session the scene can get further intense as the adrenaline flows!! Submission is like a drug and i need a fix soon.
January 2nd, 2009 at 12:32 am
When I was younger, I use to get beat up a lot because of being transgender. some people even used a baseball bat to beat me. After a while I got very use to the pain. Sometimes I would inflict it on myself by sticking needles and a knitting needle through my nipples that I loved it very much. So now i feel the more extreme pain the better. My Mistress also enjoys doing needles play and a little knife play on me in a safe enviroment. What I love the most now is feeling a knife cutting deep into my flesh or a scaple. I can got into a very deep sub-space and feel the rush heavenly.
January 3rd, 2009 at 9:35 pm
i got the best domestic spanking and ass whipping last night at Lotus’ studio. I enjoy the mother/son fantasy role playing, Mistress Lotus’ strict scolding, face slapping and spitting really made me feel very humiliated. i like her forcing me to smell her dirty panties and force me to hold it in my mouth as a gag. She made me to chew the soap bar as a punishment, cause she think i’m a very bad and nasty boy, i hate the taste of soap bar, but i do like the feeling of being in her control.
it’s the first time for me to experience electro violet want play , i like it as well. i hope next time she can set the power much higher to punish me, I also hope mistress lotus could post the picture of my well caned black and blue bottom on her website. My bottom is still sore and stinging while i am writing this blog… But Mistess i want to be your toughest slave. next time I would like to submit to a truely harsh corporal punishment which makes me really screaming, crying and beg for your mercy.
January 6th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
Funny how you can crave pain and torment from a beautiful woman. I had my most recent session Sunday with the talented Mistress Lotus. She tied my arms from the ceiling, my legs were spread and restrained to the floor. Afetr wiring my balls and cock to the tens unit. Lotus started sending in bolts of current, and she applied hurtful clamps to my nipples. This made me stand on tip-toes; she proceeded to savagely whip and beat me in the legs, ass, sides, back. belly and chest, all while I was soundly gagged. Its the loss of control that excited me, and after 15 minutes of this I was reduced to begging and screaming like an animal. But bless her chinese heart, (and I know she love me, just like my dear ol’ mother use to) she whipped and tortured me with 500 even hard strokes. My anguished protests means nothing to her. I was beaten senseless and raw and when it finally stopped, all the world seemed so very calm. But the strangest thing of all was that I thought I had gotten off light, I wanted more and felt quite guilty that she stopped, so I scheduled another session later of next week for another 1000 strokes. Seems one man’s high is another another man’s poison and vise versa, There is nothing quite as intense as hard cruel domination; even a good orgasm pales in comparision. I will write again after the next session. Oh my brothers… Mistress Lotus is the finest pro Dom I have ever visited and I have traveled all over the world. Tommy Parker
January 16th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
I’m new to BDSM, It sounds all very interesting, but it’s usual to me.
January 16th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
People come to visit me with different interests, I have 30% is fetish session, 50% is regular session, 20% is severe punishment session, the 20% customers have high pain tolerance, they do like heavy flogging, spanking or whipping and caning, some enjoy strong electric play and cruel CBT and Nipple torture. In a good session, pain is pleasure for a real pain lover.
May 4th, 2009 at 12:27 am
Gary, I like all forms of spanking and straping, humiliation, punishment. to be made fun of and dressing in shirts that are knit with long wrist cuffs. Electrical play. Obedience to rules that are many and strict.
June 16th, 2009 at 11:26 am
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November 18th, 2009 at 1:49 am
I am a masochist. I got turned on to spanking at 15 years old. I played truth or dare with some friends. Of course the dare was to be whipped 100 times with a belt on the bare bottom in front of all my friends. It was embarrising but very erotic to me. Spanking then became part of my sexualality. i have spent my entier adult life looking for someone to give me the severe spankings i lust after. Find someone into spanking is far and few between. And the one that do accommadate you are rarely any good. Then in the fall of 2006,I met mistress Lotus.She understood the type of corporal punishment i was looking for. She starts out with a very erotic spanking. then she finishs you off with a real scurging whipping that leaves you crying for mercy! The harder the better is how i like it. Then she makes you climax and sends you totally into orbit! No body delivers pain and pleasure the way mistress lotus does. I have been a repeat client for three years now. No two sessons are the same. She really knows how to aticipate what you want and then thow a new twist in the session to keep each one irteresting. She really is a very special and talented Pro domm. The twin cities is lucky to have mistress lotus and mistress lita. here They provide an excellent service for our special needs. Bill
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